Blac Chyna e por respeitabilidade política só é exequível em mulheres negras

Blac Chyna

Blac Chyna, uma ex-stripper agora virado empresária e modelo, é o mais recente alvo da política de respeitabilidade nas mãos de seu ex-noivo e pai-do filha Rob Kardashian e o público em geral.

Tenho certeza que algumas pessoas estão coçando suas cabeças sobre por que eu mencionei que Blac Chyna é uma ex-stripper. Isso foi intencional. Como muitos de vocês apareceram seus narizes? Como muitos de vocês deixou de exibi-la como um ser humano-uma mulher, uma mãe? Alguém merecedor de respeito?

Blac Chyna

Blac Chyna não fez nada que não tenha sido feito desde o início dos tempos. Talvez o ferrão é mulheres de batida branco em seu próprio jogo. As irmãs Kardashian e Kris Jenner nunca estiveram aqui por ela embora passam a maior parte de suas vidas adultas, fazendo exatamente o que ela fez. Mulheres brancas "casar-se" enquanto mulheres negras "usar". De alguma forma, uma garota de 17 anos branca com uma propensão para namoro e os rappers pretos de merda não é problemática. Tenho certeza que ela é um upgrade para esses tipos como Travis Scott, Tyga e PartyNextDoor. E Khloe e Kim fizeram suas rodadas também. Claramente, ser branco compra todos os tipos de passes para fuckery. Nós não falamos sobre as milhas em suas vaginas, mas Blac Chyna é esperado para ser o "Saint de todos vós Santo preto Vaginas".

E seu precioso, desleixado perdedor viciada em drogas de um filho/irmão de alguma forma merecia uma mulher "melhor" do que um preto, ex-stripper com um filho por agora ex-namorado, Tyga do sua filha.

Rob Kardashian fez o que a maioria dos homens e mulheres fazem quando Blac Chyna tomou uma decisão consciente de ser egoísta.

Quando assumimos o controle de nossos próprios destinos, gente torná-lo um ponto para que apareça o que julgam ser o pior em nós. Nossas atitudes e comportamento sexual. Nossa ousadia para não dar a mínima!

Blac ChynaUma falsa narrativa foi criada que disse que as mulheres negras devem considerar os sentimentos dos outros, oferecendo apoio incessante e gratidão para com essas mesmas pessoas muitas vezes à custa de nossa própria sanidade. Sendo nós mesmos por medo de como vai ficar para os outros nos leva a ficar em silêncio e aceitar que os outros pensam que devemos ter contra atrás o que desejamos.

Esses babacas mesmas apontam o dedo na esperança para denegrir e vergonha mulheres negras para caber em suas caixas de críticas durante a engajar-se nos mesmos comportamentos atrás de portas fechadas.

Eu vivi isso.

Muitas pessoas sabem a história de como conheci meu marido. Os outros não podem. As mulheres, que meu marido chama a família, passaram anos tentando envergonhar-me para sair com meu marido. Saí com o "irmão" primeiro. Sim, fizemos sexo. Lotes do mesmo. Supere isso.

E então eu vi meu marido. Ele era tudo. Pediu-me para fora mesmo sabendo que tinha namorado com o seu "irmão". Aparentemente, a lealdade não foi um problema nesse ponto. Até dei cara a cortesia de "pedir" se ele tinha algum problema comigo, sair com meu marido.

Ele disse, "N."

O olhar no rosto dele disse o contrário, mas que não era minha parte assim eu continuei andando. Al e eu segui em frente e então era uma questão.

Em algum lugar, foi determinado que o ônus de não vem entre dois homens crescidos caiu em mim. Estávamos todos adultos. Eu não devo nada a nenhum deles. Ainda não até hoje. E se ser leal a um outro significava que eu tinha que ajudá-los a realizar esta façanha, eles estavam sem sorte.

Blac Chyna

Aparentemente, minha vagina irritou as mulheres nesta família disfuncional bunda também. (Bem uma cabra em particular) tentaram convencer meu marido que eu não era digno de seu amor por causa da minha conexão com a cara de diversas que não tinha pensado desde que deixei de lidar com ele – entre outras coisas.

Com toda a sujeira e esqueletos que existia naquele espaço, pensei que essas pessoas teria trabalhado em melhorar a mesmos ao invés de estar preocupadas por que meu marido amou e casou comigo.

Acho que meu marido discreto apreciado minha atitude "IDGAF" .

Aqui está a coisa.

As pessoas o projeto suas inseguranças em outros. É importante reconhecer isso. Além disso, é de fundamental importância compreender que muitas pessoas estão desconfortáveis com mulheres negras auto-confiante, assertivas, especialmente tendo em conta a história de manter mulheres negras oprimidas.

Nossa progressão depende de irmãs não sentir culpa ou vergonha sobre a tomada de controle da nossa felicidade, nossas riquezas, nossos corpos e nossas vozes.

 

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K. Araújo, a native Detroiter, is a cross between Claire Huxtable, Rosie Pérez and Millie Jackson. Widow, professional dragger of filth and Mami to the dopest Ethiopian EVER, she is the Editor in Chief of “Negra With Tumbao” and a Staff Writer for “The Urban Twist”. Keka has been known to shake what her mama gave her, is the hell and high water, an expert salsera and cussologist with a penchant for the finer things in life and is and forever shall be- unapologetically black.

  • LaDonna

    I was all the way with you about the slut shaming we Black women must endure versus that of White women. The “miles on ones vagina” line is classic. I don’t understand the correlation between you sexing brothers, marrying one and being gobsmacked that the women of the family would take umbrage. Your decision to do so might be woman empowerment but it’s also messy.

    • There was no mess. I’m an adult. I was upfront about my intentions and it wasn’t his blood brother and even if it was… that’s between them… neither one of them had any bearing on what I want.

      Folks kill me with all that…. knowing they’ve done and been worse but constantly want to talk about what somebody does with their life…Neither one was my husband at the time and I found something I liked better. I’m not depriving myself of anything for some nigga’s pride who WASN’T shit in the first place… naw bruh.. take that same “L” You tried to give me.

    • and I already stated that the women were DOING was away worse shit than me and not being honest.. moral of the story… worry about YOUR own raggedy ass life before meddling in mine… I got this.

  • C Taborn

    Ohhh NWT your story took me back to a similar situation I went through with my former and his “brother.” Instead of the women in the family trying to shame me it was the former. I had to hurt his feelings real quick. How you going to attempt to shame me for a brief fling with your “brother” when I didn’t even know you at the time esp when I find out that you & your actual brothers got a history of dating each others’ cast-offs as well as the rampant cheating all ya’ll where doing that even your own mama co-signed on. Girl I pulled up my grown woman panties and bounced on all them. I watch this Black Cyna/Rob K mess with curiosity on the mental gymnastics people are engaging in to make her look like the ain’t sh*t person in the relationship when Rob K was no saint. I’m amazed at his supposed “victim” status when it is evident that his chronic depression and other issues not to mention his family’s constant involvement would have been a contributing factor to her decision to leave the relationship. No one really knows what that relationship was truly about outside of what was presented to the media.

    • Let’s also mention…Rob has been abusive af to other women.

      Girl!!

      • C Taborn

        Yeah I’m trying not to get into it with people like “so Rob’s history with his exes mean nothing so Tyga’s shenanigans mean nothing so basically ya’ll saying you not even going to bother with comprehending anything outside of believing she is a gold digger who is taking Rob for child support or to get Tyga back for being with Kylie?!?” Maybe she wanted to be with him and help him through his issues and then realize they were bigger than her and left to keep her sanity. I mean if she is a gold digger than what is he? His mama pretty much supports him and even his sisters sort of treat him like a burden when he is in a depressive state or a sad puppy they trot out when they want to feel better by “helping” him out. From the outside looking in he has problems that he may not be trying to fix and how much “supporting” is she supposed to be doing (I guess she was supposed to be ride-or-die even when his own sisters are no such thing). I feel like people are not even trying to see them both as flawed imperfect human beings who make mistakes or are just not right for each other. Oh I forgot people who live their lives in the spotlight should be spotless smh. I’m getting off my soapbox now. Between this situation and the new Jay-Z album I need a mental break lol

        • Nasahgnik

          Flawed imperfect human beings?
          He committed a crime in the state of California.
          He should be prosecuted.
          #jailRobKardashian

          • C Taborn

            My comment about “flawed imperfect human beings” had nothing to do with his social media bullying etc. I find what he did to be deplorable and there should be punishment. I can’t speak on the legality of it as I have yet to research the actual law in CA. Sadly I also know that proving something legally is another matter and like stalking laws if the law is written too broadly than it’s not easy despite having overwhelming evidence.
            Again my comment was a general take on the commentary surrounding this relationship and how many levels a relationship can have. Legally criminal behavior is a different matter.

          • Nasahgnik

            Under SB 255, an act of revenge porn is defined as someone who “photographs or records by any means the image of the intimate body part or parts of another identifiable person, under circumstances where the parties agree or understand that the image shall remain private, and the person subsequently distributes the image taken, with the intent to cause serious emotional distress, and the depicted person suffers serious emotional distress.” 3

  • SJP

    I don’t care about her being stripper. But their situation was messy and my own opinion (not fact) is that they each had ulterior motives that did not involve mutual love or affection, for getting together. He took ish too darn far trying to shame her for how she chooses to live her life after their breakup. She didn’t owe him any darn thing and he didn’t owe her any darn thing once they parted ways. I don’t care if they still hit that, they were no longer exclusive. His temper tantrum on Instagram and Twitter will be great evidence that will be used against him when Blac Chyna takes his tail to court.

    • C Taborn

      Thank you I see as a whole they were both not altogether correct in their behavior/motives but what happened after the breakup is a different story. He was all the way wrong for the social media bullying revenge porn etc.

  • Nasahgnik

    This is not about respectability politics. What you are doing is filtering this thru the lens of your experience.
    This is about a crime.
    Revenge porn is a crime in California.
    Everything else is a distraction.
    #jailRobKardashian