Five Fab Products For Every Natural Hair Type

natural hair

Natural hair products yield millions of dollars annually. With the vast array of natural hair types, it is easy to get bombarded with products for every natural hair type in your household. My daughter and I have 2 different hair textures. Mine is primarily 4a with some 3c strands and baby girl is primarily 4b […]

I Am A “Problematic” Black Girl


Being “problematic” isn’t a title which many people would bear with pride. It’s not even a label I necessarily want. But it is a label which I’ve been called a few times. I say things with which many folks agree. I, also, say a plethora of things people abhor. I base my opinions from personal […]

Even The Mighty Get Weary: My Battle With Depression


Major depression and factors associated with depression were more frequent among members of minority groups than among Whites. *Source * This past year has been tremendously difficult. An extraordinarily arduous time for me (and my family) due to untimely, soul-wrenching deaths  ( my stepfather, followed by my Daddy and now my grandmother) and the termination of my marriage. *Read about it here*  […]

Heather Heyer’s Death Is Tragic But She Was Not A Hero

Heather Heyer

It isn’t uncommon for our spaces to be filled with “allies”  who come to tell us about how open we should be,  how color-blind they are and/ or how much they care about our plight. A plight that has existed for the better part of five centuries. These conversations, typically, stay within our spaces (where […]

Lil Duval Has Always Been A Problem But Nobody Cared Until Now

Lil Duval

Lil Duval, known to most for being a not so funny comedian, has come under fire for his latest batch of fuckery. During an appearance on Power 105.1’s “The Breakfast Club” on July 28, comedian Lil Duval said he would kill a sexual partner if he learned she was transgender. Lil Duval received backlash on Twitter […]

How Many More R. Kelly Stories Do You Really Need To Finally Believe?

R. Kelly

R. Kelly is a fucking monster. PERIOD. I was going to write a long ass thinkpiece about how trifling many of y’all, who’ve continued to support this vile piece of shit ass negro, are.  And then I thought better because I had been there and done that. Also, I have grown weary of hearing you […]

Blac Chyna And Why Respectability Politics Is Only Enforceable On Black Women

Blac Chyna

Blac Chyna, a former stripper now turned business woman and model, is the latest target of respectability politics at the hands of her ex-fiance and daughter’s father- Rob Kardashian and the general public. I’m sure that some folks are scratching their heads as to why I mentioned that Blac Chyna is a former stripper. That […]

What Every Cheater Could Learn From Jay-Z


Jay-Z has been relatively quiet with reference to his “alleged” extramarital affairs. Until now. According to various websites including, Jigga speaks, through his music, about his fear of almost losing his family, his arrogance regarding his disceptive behavior and what Beyonce means to him. He is being accountable for being a fucked up husband […]

Five Reasons Why I Couldn’t Care Less About Tupac’s “All Eyez On Me” Biopic


Tupac Amaru Shakur is to rap what Elvis Presley is to rock n’ roll. Larger than life. A legend.  A G.O.A.T. to some. Gen X-ers and older millennials relive their youth whenever his tracks are played posthumously. I’m positive that we all have a memory or two associated with Tupac and his neverending discography. I […]

Delving Into The Mind Of A Narcissist And Why You’ll Never Be A Priority


Priority. It’s a rather underutilized word in the English language. In a world full of people who, only, seem to care about “me” and “my feelings”– we need to begin to critically think about the space we give narcissists in our lives. I, wholeheartedly, believe many people want to do the right thing. That most […]