Delving Into The Mind Of A Narcissist And Why You’ll Never Be A Priority

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Priority. It’s a rather underutilized word in the English language. In a world full of people who, only, seem to care about “me” and “my feelings”– we need to begin to critically think about the space we give narcissists in our lives. I, wholeheartedly, believe many people want to do the right thing. That most […]

The Impropriety Of Black Manhood: Men With Mommy Issues

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Black manhood is often discussed but never quite broken down into terms in which everyone can relate. It, also,  seems accountability and responsibility have become obsolete in many relationships as well as far as men are concerned. While the world has, thoroughly,  examined women and their “Daddy” issues, no thought or attention has been given […]

Five Reasons Why A “Coming To America” Sequel Just Ain’t A Good Look

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The Hollywood rumor mill has confirmed that a sequel for “Coming To America” is, currently, in the works. The thought of it makes my good eye twitch.     The original, released in 1988, is COMEDIC GOLD.  Although another VSB contributor, who shall remain unnamed and shaded, believes the contrary. The original screenwriters have the daunting […]

Centering White Feelings Over Black Victimization…Not Today, Satan!

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A few days ago, I wrote a blog post outing an opportunistic, avaricious and abusive “activist” in our community. I STAND BEHIND EVERY WORD I PENNED. However, I learned three things. Even among the blackity blackest spaces, white centering runs rampant. Also the “tragic mulata”  trope is an integral part of the fabric in our history […]

The Life And Times Of The Tragic Mulata

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Navigating the proximity to blackness must be a profound challenge for the tragic mulata. In the past, I’ve felt empathy for her. I know many sisters who’ve tried to elucidate clear boundaries in order to embrace their negritude. There’s always that one who decides that black ain’t REALLY where it’s at UNTIL it’s advantageous to be […]

Marriage And Infidelity Are Not My Portion But It’s Cool If It’s Yours

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My marriage was important to me. Operative word “was”. Many of you already know that I decided to, publicly, share the culmination of factors which ended our union. I’ve, openly,  expressed my feelings via my personal Facebook and have had open discussions.  I have been asked if my marriage could have been saved. That answer […]

Kendall Jenner Saves The Oppressed With A Pepsi

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Kendall Jenner, one of two of the Jenner/Kardashian  offspring with her almost original face, has now become the “White Flower Of Justice” according to Pepsi. The 118 years-old soft drink company, founded in Delaware, released a controversial commercial on the Good Lord’s Tuesday (yesterday). Donning a blonde wig, couture digs and serving good face because modeling is […]

Five Signs Your Moms Raised A Bitch Ass Nigga

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“Grown” men and boys alike are being treated like princesses by their moms. Women are enabling dudes from childhood and it’s creating a new breed of bitch ass niggas. It’s an epidemic and I’m here to help ladies identify and RUN from these clowns. Bitch ass niggas are easy to come by in 2017. The objective is […]

When A Purge Becomes Larger Than Life

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Purge. A 5-letter, one syllable word which I thought of as my world fell apart around me. I was completely numb. So numb that I could no longer feel the tears run down my cheeks when I reflected on losing my Daddy. I, simply, closed my eyes and they fell. This must be grief. I […]

Open Letter To My Husband And His Mistress On His Birthday

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Happy 43rd Birthday, Babe! I hope you enjoyed your date. You had to have been looking forward to the weekend. I mean your boo got her hair done and shit. Although, she doesn’t quite get her cejas together like I like but we all have something, right? I am sure she’s a great person. She fucks […]